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Why Are Some People So Rude To Waiters?

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We kill some with kindness, and others with our inconsideration. It is a common sight to see otherwise kind and generous people turn absolutely insensitive when talking to waiters. Where does this behaviour come from? Let’s find out.

 They reserve respect only for certain people

A lot of people tend to have a situational value system. They will treat the waiters with impatience and condescension, but as soon as the chef comes out or the manager approaches, they don the sweetest of smiles and become polite. But people who do not have such a value system will be polite and sweet always – no matter the position of the other person.

They are not team players

When people are rude to waiters, it shows that they have a habit of demanding things – service, time, and respect. Placed in a team, such people find it extremely difficult to function collaboratively.

They fail to see waiters as people

The rudeness and the impoliteness often come down to this. When we see wait staff, retail workers, janitors as people – we automatically extend kindness. We respect their feelings, and recognize that they have a life – and thus, a story.

They are not mindful about their behaviour with Waiters

Having said all of this, there are also a lot of people who just do not know better. Many of us grew up watching our parents talk rudely to waiters, show impatience or even shout at a salesperson. We may have taken this as the norm and added it to our habit as well. But as adults, and people who have a mind of their own, we can do better. We can learn to see where these habits come from, and see if they really fit the kind of person we want to be today or not.

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5 Food Items One Must Avoid For A Healthy Skin!

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Do we even need to talk about the fact that our health is directly proportional to the food we eat? Each of our body part is separately affected by the food items we intake. Therefore, undoubtedly proper diet is a key to proper health. But sometimes even the proper thing might have improper quantity of some ingredients that causes hormonal imbalance. Somehow, skin is the most vulnerable part affected by the intake of something good or bad. All the sugar, oil and fat seem to accumulate and form a sickening patch, acne, pimple, black head and the list goes on. So here’s a list of some skin undermining food items that one must avoid to keep one’s skin healthy:

1. Sugar-Rich Food Items

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Directly or indirectly in the form of high-glycemic foods, excess sugar is not good for your skin. It increases the insulin levels and puts unnatural demands before the body to deal with the food just eaten. It causes acne, and saggy skin due to breakdown of collagen and elastin. In addition to this, it causes excess of hair growth and black patches on neck and related areas. Therefore, cut down your sugar intake and limit it to only some healthy amount.

2. Salt

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Though salt forms an essential ingredient in most of our foods, excess intake of salt increases blood pressure that affects collagen. Too much of salt also affects the skin around eyes giving it a puffy look.

3. Caffein

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How long have you been without your caffeine intake? Not very long I suppose. Caffeine does act as an exfoliating agent when applied externally but too much of caffeine intake does cause severe problems. An excessive amount of caffeine in your system can cause blood vessels to constrict, preventing them from pumping the necessary amount of antioxidants and skin-healthy nutrients that would otherwise maintain the production of collagen, around your body.

4. Processed Food/ Junk Food

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Can you even think of a single day that doesn’t involve the consumption of processed or junk foods, be it your instant noodles, ketchup, flavored peanuts, processed milk, juices, pizza, burgers and the list is never ending. But everything comes along with alternatives. Try and follow those alternatives along the lines because no wonder the combination of fat, sugar, and lots of salt (sodium) makes fast food tastier to some people, diets high in sodium can lead to water retention, which is why you may feel puffy, bloated or swollen after eating them. It’s high on the glycemic index, which is bad for wrinkles and acne. High glycemic index products cause hormone levels to spike, which alters the quality of oil in the skin, and potentially causing acne breakouts.

5. Carbonated Drinks/ Alcohol

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If you think that an alternative to alcohol as a carbonated drink is a healthy option, then you are surely wrong for both of them are equally detrimental and futile. Numerous studies have shown the negative health effects of drinking soda on your waistline and on your teeth. The higher amount of sugar in them again causes the above mentioned problems. Alcohol on the other hand, wreaks havoc very quickly on our liver which is responsible for our daily detoxification process and makes us look happy and glowing. When alcohol steps into the picture, it puts the breaks into our system resulting in the body looking and feeling toxic from the inside. Alternatives are fruits juices (extracted naturally), coconut water and lemonade (without soda).

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Pick One From These Astrologically Designed Meditations

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The upcoming full moon is associated with new, introspective beginnings. As the moon comes full circle and sets off into another cycle, we also get a chance to reinvent ourselves. Along this journey, having the help and support of these meditations can prove to be very helpful. So, read on to see how you can meditate your way to a healthier self!

 

Visual New Moon Meditations

These visual and audio meditations are very soothing. They gently nudge us into the space of our mind where we can meditate properly and without any distractions. You can free yourself of the distractions and just focus on relaxing and knowing your inner self.

 

Meditation for letting go

Meditations in this category will help you in letting go of things that bring no joy to you. When we refuse to let go, we are also stopping our own growth and healing. Through these meditations, you can rise above your past and be your best self. You will yourself feel the change after the first session itself.

 

Meditation for harmony

When we close our eyes to these soulful beats and offer concentration, a lot of good things can happen. We are able to reach inwards and make peace with ourselves. By doing so, we feel more connected and whole. This harmony goes on to improve many aspects of our life.

 

Removing Toxic People Meditations

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Sometimes, we do not understand readily the people who are no longer good for us. Their ulterior motives or the way their actions have been affecting us do not feel obvious. But if we take out some moments to meditate about it, we can come out with a clearer mind. Thinking about the people in our lives and the value we bring to each other is very important.

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FOMO- A Never-Ending Struggle In College Life

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College years are an amalgamation of a never-ending struggle for attendance, CGPA, friends and social life. Managing all of these dimensions become nearly impossible. We end up missing out on one or the other thing in our bid to grapple them all in our control. No matter how much we try, acing the art of keeping a perfect balance is one herculean task.

What is FOMO?

“I need to complete my assignments and my friends are out there partying and having fun!” “I’ll miss out on an awesome trip with my friends if I pursue this internship in summers” and so on. Have you ever had such thoughts brimming your head making you discontented with your life? Well then, you are suffering from a syndrome called ‘Fear of Missing Out’ or as the Gen Y calls it, FOMO.

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FOMO is defined as anxiety than an exciting or an interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere, often aroused by posts seen on social media.

FOMO in youngsters

Youngsters are most vulnerable to FOMO as anxiety of comparing their lifestyles with that of their peers constantly pressurize them. Darlen Mclaughin, an assistant professor at the Texas A&M Health Science College said, “FOMO is especially rampant in the millennial community because they see a peer achieving something they want, and somehow in their mind, that achievement means something is being ‘taken away’ from them.”

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Have you ever come across the party pictures of your friends on Instagram while you are dug into your textbooks for an upcoming exam? To ease out your stress, you aren’t the only one. Rampant usage of social media further accentuates this fear of missing out among youths. The virtual reality of their peer’s lives make them envious and further dissatisfied with their own.

How to deal with it?

FOMO ends up making the person always cranky and dissatisfied. Thus, dealing with FOMO in a smart manner is essential to lead a joyous lifestyle.

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It becomes essential to internalize that no matter whatever you do, you’ll always miss out on something. Constantly dwelling on what you are missing out will strip you of joys in what you have too. It is also significant to prioritize your time to the activities that need your attention more. So, tell yourself that’s okay to miss a few parties or outings as you are working towards an even more important goal instead of stressing yourself out for having missed it.

Also read: Here’s Why We Need To Slow Down

 

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